TANTRIC MUSE.

VISIONARY.

AUTHOR.

WORKING WITH ME IS LIKE ADDING LIGHTER FLUID TO YOUR ZEST FOR LIFE… AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

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“Have I gone mad?”

the mad hatter:

“I’m afraid so. You’re entirely bonkers. but I’ll tell you a secret. all the best people are.”

alice:

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hug her like it’s the last hug ever. then stay. at least 12 more seconds. no agenda. no next step attached… just a full-body, wide-awake heart on.

intimacy for high-achievers who are done performing and ready to feel it.

let’s work together

Your Aliveness starts here…

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TANTRIC COACHING

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BOOK BIRTHIN’

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GUEST TEACHING

Choose Your PATH

Meet Kristin

i work mostly with high achieving men, women, and couples whose lives look wildly accomplished on the outside… and don’t yet feel as connected on the inside. You know how to achieve, provide, and lead. Nobody ever showed you what intimacy can be besides sex.

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best-selling author, podcast host, intimacy guide, and professional line-blurrer between the profane and the prOfound.

Most of us learned that intimacy means sex.

So when sex slows down, closeness packs a bag and leaves with it. The touch in passing. The real conversation at dinner. The notes and plans from the dating years. What's left is logistics. Who's grabbing the kids? Did you lock the door? Are you taking the trash out?

So you try to fix it the way you fix everything: you perform. You come up behind her at the sink while she's running ten things in her head. You hear not now, and you wait longer before trying again. In bed you're thinking about tomorrow's meeting, or lasting longer, or making sure she finishes. (Spoiler: that pressure makes it harder for both of you.)

So we don’t start in the bedroom. We start at the front door.

The next time you hug her, hug her like it's the last time you'll ever get to. Would you really be there? Would you feel her skin on your skin, her breath, the weight of her leaning in? When you feel that urge to pull away, stay. At least 12 more seconds. It doesn't come with any next step attached. Your only job is to be and feel.

I bring warmth, humor, curiosity, and a healthy dose of playful defiance to my work with high achievers who are ready to trade pressure and performance for presence, pleasure, and actually feeling their lives.

What shifts? You get out of your head and into your body. Anxiety loosens its grip. You name what you want, in bed and out of it, and watch how easy it gets to ask for the raise, too. Closeness starts showing up at the kitchen counter instead of waiting for the bedroom. You get turned on by your own life again.

It’s time to uncover who you already are under all that conditioning and performing. You’re not a project to fix.
You’re a miracle to explore.

I’M NOT A POLISHED GURU ON A MEDITATION PILLOW. I’M A CURIOUS TEXAS WOMAN WHO’S WALKED THROUGH SOME FIRES, TAKEN GOOD NOTES, AND LEARNED TO LAUGH ALONG THE WAY.

DISCONNECTION. DESIRE. PRESENCE. PLEASURE. GRIEF. LOVE. HEARTBREAK. SEXUALITY. SPIRITUALITY. SHAME. REINVENTION. PSYCHEDELICS. WRITING. SOMATIC HEALING. PINK TANTRA.

I’ll talk with you about intimacy, performance, and shame the way I’d talk across a dinner table. No lab coat, no sermon, no clutching of pearls.

let’s work together
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Check out my blog

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ARE WE GOD IN DRAG?
Writing, Mindset, Healing, Spirituality
ARE WE GOD IN DRAG?
Writing, Mindset, Healing, Spirituality

For years, I carried the weight of shame—some of it mine, but most of it projected onto me by culture, being raised in the Bible belt, and expectations I never agreed to. After years of people-pleasing, I sought self-discovery and wholeness.

If reality is shaped by how we see it, then shifting our perception shifts our world. If many people shift their perception, what dramatic shifts become possible for the world?

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Writing, Mindset, Healing, Spirituality
THE POWER OF PLAY
Writing, Mindset
THE POWER OF PLAY
Writing, Mindset

Too often, we can get caught up in “the work” or the pressure for something to be good right out of the gate. I believe play to be radically healing.

And I’d love to offer the perspective of looking at ourselves and life more like a miracle to explore and expand, rather than a project to fix.

This viewpoint holds a more gracious and playful energy. (At least, it has been working for me in that manner.)

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Writing, Mindset
THE WRITER’S PATH IS A WARRIOR PATH
Writing, Spirituality, Creativity
THE WRITER’S PATH IS A WARRIOR PATH
Writing, Spirituality, Creativity

Baring one's soul takes courage. 


I can feel the wrath and judgment parts of my story will have. I sense how the story may polarize. As an empath, or from a trauma response, I developed a keen ability to sense the needs and emotions of others, to gauge reactions. In years past, I adjusted my behavior accordingly, which I would now argue is a synonym for manipulation. 


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Writing, Spirituality, Creativity
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